This hair…

So as of now I am 3 years and 3months post big chop off (please go back and read the post if your are new) anyhow this hair now has its own entity. People literally stop me to either compliment my hair or to ask questions like: How do you get your hair to look like that? At this point I’m so over it I thought you know what I’m going to direct them to my blog and if their truly interested they will seek this wonderful information that is out there for anyone to get. Time is money, and the people that are usually asking me these questions see I’m on that good stroll. Answering a loaded question about my hair will at the very least take me 15-20mins, and that’s only if you know the natural hair terminologies, and hair products. So this introduces me to my new section Fro 3.0, I have always talked about my hair on this blog. But this time I will show hairstyles, products that are currently working for ME, and I may even do a couple vids…*gasp*

I kid you not I get stopped. Check out these two posts I was in, they are from the same day while at the Roots Picnic 2013!!!

roots picnic

roots picnic2


Hair update!

So last week I celebrated my 6months of natural-ness of hair (i made that up). Can you believe its been 6months since I cut my hair with the same sciccors I used for cutting my dog’s hair even paper cutting, hahahaha I just came home from school and got to work while listening to a weezy mixtape—random since I dont even consider myself a weezy fan but it had enough fearless lyrics combined with cuss words to get me hype to go through with it. At one point I was getting so sciccors happy that the back part ended up being cut shorter then the front part it was so funny now that I look back but you couldnt tell me otherwise…..

So I put together this little compilation of photos so you could see the progression take a look(click to enlarge)

Month 3 to 4.5 I skipped over because my hair was in the kinky twist which im sure if you have checked out my blog you have seen what that looks like so moving along to month 4.5

I had contemplated long and hard if I should wait till I get home to get a hair cut or should I go to my african hairbraiders husband to cut my hair with the clippers—-I really wanted my dad to shape me up but I couldnt wait my hair was all sorts of uneven! I went for it and had princess(her husband was gone) cut my hair with the clippers it was the best idea ever! the only downfall—- I had pieces of hair that was cut still falling out a week later… even after I washed my hair 3times!!! It was all worth it though why because my curls have been poppin ever since.

Drum roll please………………………………………………………

I mean Just look at the progression, its amazing how much my hair has grown how curly my hair has gotten(my curl pattern has changed many times be patient if your still in the beginning stages) and the thickness is just *OOC* (out of control) Now I will divulge my hair care regimen as of now, im not going to go into the details of how I got to this point. Lets just say trial and error and thats the fun about having a TWA (teeny weeny afro- this is a real acronym in the natural hair community) you get to experiment all you want thus learning how to manage your hair while ulitmately learning best practices for black hair care.

My regimen:

Every sunday (sometimes starting saturday night) deep conditon:

  • I use honey
  • Extra virgin olive oil
  • jojoba oil
  • herbal essence hello hydration
  • tea tree oil
  • grape seed oil

mix together and begin working it through each and every strand of hair, I place a plastic cap then a towel wrap to assimilate a heating cap leave in for a couple hours, then I wash my hair


  • lavender dr. bronners diluted castille soap, follow-up with a co-wash


I do 2 co-wash rinses after, I detangle.

  •  I use many different brands at once usually its Suave naturals ocean breeze then VO5 tea tree therapy
  •  Sometimes its VO5 tea tree therapy then bed head moisture maniac
  • Sometimes its all of the above mixed in with some bath and body works nettle conditioner

…the point is use what your hair likes, lots of naturals use expensive brands but I dont need all of that I leave the expensive items for my moisture products.


After I complete my second co-wash I leave the conditioner in and add to this,

  • I now add Qhemet Biologics cocoa butter ghee detangler
  •  an  a little vatika oil

 First I comb my hair using just my fingers, if I feel the need or want to prove a point to myself I run my denman brush through my hair. 90% of the time the brush runs right through my hair but sometimes I will get lil areas that need an extra mmmpppphhhh. After my hair has been detangled I let that sit in my hair and continue with my shower. I then do a cold, cold rinse of the products and shake my hair out.

Protective Styling: I began a very militant routine with my hair I keep it twisted in 2 strand twists 5days a week and let my hair be free friday and saturday (sundays are my wash days) while my hair is dripping wet I apply Zuresh leave in conditioner then my vatika oil, after that I let my hair absorb all that goodness. I then sit down and part my hair for my two-strand twists I apply my Zuresh curl detangler/definer or my miss jessies curly buttercream then my Qhemet Biologics- Amla Olive heavy cream(this stuff right here….man is the truth) I know this sounds like a lot but my hair thrives for the whole week without adding more moisture—-since I’m doing a challenge(more of that in a bit) I add just for safe measures and I end up adding a little bit of vatika oil with my zuresh curl definer/detangler(absolutely love the smell I cant live without it which is funny because I hated it at first) this is the perfect balance for my hair so its not too heavy!

Here is a look at all my products, I wont go into great detail about my products because they work for MY hair. I dunno what works for yours you gotta figure that out by trial and error like I did—- but some of these might work for you. Also none of these companys are paying me so I encourage you to check out thier websites if your interested in anything and need ingredient details. I spent plenty of weeks, days, hours looking into what I thought my hair would like— heres a word of advice start with the minimum then build from there add to your hair regimen as you go along to cut down on becoming a product junkie.

I will make a special mention of special treatments I do for my hair just to make sure its at its healthiest and strongest.

Every 3-4 weeks I do an ayurvedic treatment its a mixture of indian hair powders that you mix together to make a mud type mask for the hair, the products are by hesh and I have purchased the following

  • amla powder
  • brahmi powder
  • shikakai powder
  • aritha powder

Like I said do the research if you would like to know more but to sum it up it helps grow the hair thicker, cleanses the scalp, strenthens the hair, stops premature greying(not worried about that) promises to assist with hair growth.

The other treatment is a protein conditioner. Every 8weeks sometimes 10weeks I try to do a protein treatment. I pretty much bought this product

  • Piere cardin protein treatment(the rest is in korean) 

The store was going outta buisness and they were selling this big bottle for mad cheap so I knew I wanted to incorporate a commercial made product because when I used the mayo, egg combo it dried my hair out. This commericial product doesnt(i’ve used piere cardin before and thier a pretty good brand) but it might have to do with all the other things I use now but I dont want to take my chances with the mayo/egg it definitely dried my hair out! 

As for the challenge I mentioned earlier, I am a fan of many blogs and vlogs, specificaly one of the blogs I follow is doing a WL(waist length) hair challege by April of 2012!! Thats totally far fetched for me but I put my bid in for BSL(bra strap length) totally doable so with that being said I need my hair to be protected and cared for at all times. Its good that im learning how to care for my hair without relying on a stylist at the same time i’m having fun with other girls who would like to grow their natural hair out as well, since we are a tight knit community( i dare you say something negative to us.. see how fast we got each other backs) we all share good days and we all share bad days. Whether I make the length or not it is not the point but rather to prove to myself that with healthy eating, working out and ‘best practices’ with natural hair its attainable for black women to have long gorgeous hair.

Miss Jessies-Au Natural

So today I went to Wilshire Blvd to attend the )Miss Jessies event, upon arrival I ran into Kethia who I am a faithful reader of her blog titled “Flaunt Files” check her out here:

I greeted her at the door and proceeded to blurt out OOOOOOHHHH I know you(she looked at me like uuuuuhhh do I know you??? lol good times) anyways she is the reason for ME, finding out about the event. (i heart blogs) We must have chatted for like 30mins about how I stumbled upon her blog, her nails–these looked just like the minx, hair care, the event and how she got started…… we took pics and she gave me her card so we could keep in touch…I need to get sum cards made BTW… I honestly think its much more classier, and chic then pulling out your cell phone-dont you?



Well me and Tiff; My homegurl I went up there with… she was famished so we had to stop for water and snacks before entering the area where they were having the demos.

Let me tell you it was a Au Natural Frenzy up in that piece, I aint never seen nor ever saw sooooo many females with Healthy, shiny, long, soft, curly, colorful, and best of all natural hair.DSCF3107

I felt at home!!! Although I’ve only been natural for about 10months I feel different and empowered to have my natural hair in its original kinky state…I feel so much more stronger and powerful–an let me tell you natural hair is a lot of work as -Weezy F. Baby says “tougher than Nigerian hair”

I love the sisters TiTi, and Miko, their so gorgeous and beautiful!!!! Me and tiff only waited an hour in our tall ass heels… as tiffany kept saying “I need the makers of this shyt to tell me how to use this product, I don’t want nobody else telling ME!!! How to use the product they invented” and I didnt argue with that…. so while the three of us waited… yes we gained a friend…while waiting we met a woman very nice, and sweet who was latin, I swear this chic new every single curly hair product out there she blew my mind she was so Knowledgeable about black hair care gwan ahead gurl!!!!

We made her go first because she was already an expert and knew exactly what she needed…a woman with a plan….then there was me, I was still reviewing what I wanted to ask, and Tiff she jus knew she wanted Miko to do her hair ( In me and tiffs minds we were already BFF’s with Miko, I wanted to meet Miko too but TiTi seemed like she knew how to approach my un-kinky state of hair!!-GOOD CHOICE)


Then tiff went…*funny joke* the sisters cousin came up there and they were snapping family pics real quick… tell me why tiff was all up in they family photos like she was apart of the family LMAO!!!!

Miko about to do tiffs hair

Miko about to do tiffs hair

And last but not least me…I wasnt able to have an actual demo because I was rocking the flat iron look but since TiTi is the bomb she was able to tell me what to do with my hair after me briefly giving her a review of my natural hair specs


All in all, we were there for 3hours and it was a packed house!!! If you had any doubts let me tell you look no further Miss Jessie’s hair product are very good and have excellent results, I ended up purchasing the curly buttercream it smells amazing and it will be able to bring more elasticity to the “tougher then Nigerian hair” that I have pre-product. Every woman that had demos done to their hair…. let me tell you thier hair was laid out proper….Check out thier product if you took the leap of faith to go natural!!!!!